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Seven Ways To Approach An Issue

I was chatting about this with someone yesterday and made a total hash of recounting it, so I thought I’d do a quick blog post to clarify my thoughts.

This requires that you understand the Circle of Concern/Circle of Influence concept from The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. There's a good summary of these concepts at Cut The Knot.

Now imagine that inside your circle of influence is a smaller circle of responsibility. That's the things you're directly responsible for doing; the area outside of responsibility and inside of influence is what you can talk others into doing. ;]

With that in mind, here’s a good framework (from a USN SSBN commander by way of Covey’s book, “The 8th Habit”) for how to approach an issue which you believe you know how to resolve depending on your level of influence and/or responsibility:

1. Stand Mute
If it's completely outside of your circle of influence, stand mute. There's no constructive course you can pursue. Instead, consider whether or not you're genuinely concerned; if you are, channel your energies into expanding your circle of influence to include issues like this in the future.

2. Ask Questions
If it's just outside the edge of your circle of influence (inside or outside), ask questions which tend to confirm your assumptions about the issue. You'll learn things, you may provide focus and insight, and you might get invited to the solution. You'll likely expand your influence in the direction of the issue at hand ... as long as your questions are pertinent and well thought out.

3. Offer A Solution
If it's just inside the edge of your circle of influence, propose a solution. This isn’t a lot different than asking questions as noted above; rather than putting your solution up bit by bit, you’re presenting it as a holistic thing, complete with reasoning. It’s really just a change from participant to potential thought leader.

4. State Intent
If the issue lies just outside your circle of responsibility but well within your circle of influence and you believe that you can take or coordinate positive action, make a plan and present it as your intent to the person or people who have direct responsibility for the issue. This provides them insight into your proposed actions complete with a plan and the opportunity to question underlying assumptions, impact of your proposed actions, etc. They might put forth an alternative proposal, suggest modifications to your plan, or instantly agree and ask you to carry out your intent.

5. Take Action And Report Immediately
If the issue’s at the outside edge of your circle of responsibility, you have a solution which you firmly believe in, and there’s an impact to others, take action and report that action immediately. This allows them to see the impact of your action, judge the effectiveness of your solution, and will increase your circle of influence and responsibility over time as you stack up more and more successes.

6. Take Action and Report Periodically
If the issue’s clearly inside your circle of responsibility and there’s not an immediate impact to others, take action and report that action periodically (e.g. at a weekly checkin or in a weekly summary blog post, hint hint ;-) . This again exposes the impact of your action and, with continued successes, will grow your influence and responsibility.

7. Take Action
For those things clearly in the center of your circle of responsibility, just do it. You’re good at it, we already know it (that’s why we made you responsible for it =), and we trust you completely. Go\!

How do you know where the boundaries of your influence and responsibility lie? Your responsibilities should be clear (and if they’re not, you need to sit your boss down and make that so). As to influence, that’s a bit of an art and a bit of intuition; mostly you judge it by thinking about who’s coming to you with what issues, questions, and concerns.

2009.01.29 in Leadership, Thinking | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

The Values Driving My Value-Driven Life

I had the great good fortune to attend FranklinCovey's FOCUS training with several members of my team last week. One of the exercises they give you is to select 4-9 core values and write positive clarifying statements for each. I just finished up and, since one of my statements is "I openly share my values and invite discussion," here they are:


These are the values which drive my life. On my best days, this is who I am; on my worst, they still mostly apply (I hope ...)

Passion

I actively seek challenges that excite me.

I convey my excitement openly, genuinely, and infectuously.

I urge others to identify their values, tap into their passions, and get going!

Respect

I consider the circumstances of others in my dealings with them.

I assume the best and most constructive motivations on the part of others.

I demonstrate my ignorance of others' circumstances by asking positive, open-ended questions and listening carefully to the answers.

Integrity

I live by consistent values in a transparent manner, without regard of what's at stake or who's watching.

I make decisions based on my values and what's right for the situation and people involved, not what's most personally beneficial or most expedient.

Candor

I share my values openly and invite discussion of them.

I express compliments and concerns freely and frequently, in ways that will be heard and is not hurtful to others.

I make a point of complimenting the good work of others. I share compliments I've heard with the subject of those compliments.

I share concerns in ways which make them actionable for others.

I hold myself and others accountable for mistakes. When appropriate, I fully acknowledge my role in bad choices and work to make things right.

Leadership

I step into unowned problems and help find them a home.

I constantly seek to improve my vision of the best possible future and articulate it to others in a way which allows them to act independently toward that end.

I look for opportunities to mentor others in growing in line with their personal values.

I help others engage in long-term critical thinking and help them recognize that they are fully empowered to act as a force for positive change.

Compassion

I take opportunities to do small kindnesses and good deeds whenever I can.

I relieve pain wherever possible.

I seek first to understand.

Courage

I do not allow concerns about my personal well-being to prevent me from addressing a problem.

I take positive, direct action even when I dread the work or the outcome.

I seek creative solutions to intimidating problems, pursuing the most positive outcome for all involved.

Reliability

I meet my commitments. I do not take on commitments which I know I can't meet.

I manage expectations openly and clearly.

Humor

I use humor to defuse tension and relieve pain.

I always look for and share the humorous aspects of challenging or grim situations.

2008.09.29 in Leadership, Thinking | Permalink | Comments (3) | TrackBack (0)

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BarCamp RDU: Fun and Done

Was a lot of fun. Did the Werewolf and Value-Driven Life sessions and got more interest in both than I expected. Also pitched in on Nick Napp's "10 Ways To Accelerate The Failure Of A Startup" which drew a big crowd and was good, but that was because Nick did all the work and his usual consummately excellent job presenting.

I'll be sad to miss it next year; we know our family vacation will be earlier and in Orlando to celebrate our 10th anniversary with the one that brought us together, Mickey Mouse. =]

2008.08.03 in Leadership, Thinking | Permalink | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0)

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BarCamp RDU in 8 hours!

Was checking in to get the details on where and when to be there and, courtesy of a semi-random chat with my friend Evan, decided to propose not one, but two non-technical sessions tomorrow:

  1. Werewolf 101: Rending Your Friends For Fun And Profit!
  2. Taking a Leap of Faith: Letting Your Values Run Your Life, A Story in Three Acts

And then, being the nervous sort, I had to write up some fast notes on what I'll say in either.

The second one surprised me a bit and, frankly, I'll be surprised if anyone bites on it. But it's a topic which I've studied to considerable depth and about which I'm passionate ... and sometimes people actually want some ideas on how to think about their lives and consider what they want to make of them.

Six hours to sleep, up and shower, and an hour to drive. Wheee!

(p.s. yes, the WW101 class is really just a ploy to play some Werewolf. And maybe get a game together for that night. Would be fun to go back to the Velvet Cloak Inn ...)

2008.08.01 in Leadership, Organization, Thinking | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

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Me @ LinkedIn.com

Today is my first day as the manager of light engineering development at LinkedIn and I'm incredibly excited about it. Why's that, you might ask? Because LED is the group that's bringing agile development and Ruby on Rails to LinkedIn.

Who says Rails isn't ready for the enterprise? ;p

2007.11.26 in Business, Leadership, Management, Ruby/Rails, Social Networks | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

A Change of Pace

One or both of you who read this blog may already know this, but today was my first full-time day with Cucina Media, we the makers of Public Square.

Today I:

  • Fed my kids breakfast
  • Saw them off to school (Beth took them)
  • Talked with my partners about what the week holds in store
  • Talked with our development partners about what we need to do in the next few weeks
  • Met with a couple of prospective customers
  • Talked at length with Christina about the focus of our next week, month, and quarter
  • Chatted with Rob, a long-time friend and colleague who's just returned to the US after ~9 months in Asia
  • Picked up Sam after pre-school
  • Went grocery shopping with Sam in tow
  • Cooked dinner for the family
  • Played Elmo Uno with Beth and Sam
  • Posted to my blog

It was an intense business day, with five meetings squeezed into six hours. We discussed everything from what needs to be done in the next week to the different opportunities out there for us and what it would mean -- to our company and to our values -- to take this or that one. Values. Objectives. What we want to do and why. Good stuff like that.

It was a very happy day. =]

2007.06.04 in Business, Leadership, Management, Organization, Thinking, Web 2.0 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

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